Pompom Jar

Reward jar vs sticker chart: which works better?

Sticker charts, marble jars and pom pom jars are all token systems: a child earns something small for a behaviour you want to encourage, and enough tokens add up to a reward. They work the same way underneath. The differences are in how easy they are to see, keep going and share.

At a glance

Sticker chartMarble or pom pom jarPom pom jar app
Best forDaily routines with fixed steps"Catching" good behaviour any timeFamilies with several children or carers
How progress looksRows of stickersA jar filling upA jar filling up, with physics and sound
Works away from homeNoNoYes
Several adults can addIf they're at homeIf they're at homeYes, from their own phones
Ongoing costPrinting and stickersNone after the jarNone (Pompom Jar is free)
Things to watchCan feel like a checklistPompoms get lost or topped upScreen time, if you let children tap

When a sticker chart is the better choice

A sticker chart suits a fixed routine, like a morning or bedtime checklist, where each step gets ticked off every day. Children can see exactly which steps they've done.

When a jar is the better choice

A jar suits noticing good moments as they happen: kindness, patience, trying something new. There's no grid to fill in order, so every pompom feels like a little celebration, and young children instantly understand "when it's full, we celebrate". It's also why teachers love a classroom pom pom jar for the whole class.

Tips that work whichever you choose

  • Be specific about the behaviour, and agree the reward up front.
  • Make the first goal easy to reach, so the system earns trust.
  • Praise out loud when you add a token; the attention is part of the reward.
  • Prefer shared experiences over toys as rewards.
  • Keep it positive: adding is more powerful than taking away.

Trying a jar

You can start with any jar and a bag of pompoms. If you'd like one on your phone that the whole family shares, Pompom Jar is a free reward jar app for iPhone and iPad: a jar per child, chore or habit, fluffy pompoms that tumble in, confetti when it's full, iCloud family sharing and an optional parent PIN. Read more about how a pom pom jar works.

🫙Coming soon to theApp Store